Say “no” this week to something that drains you and “yes” to something that restores you—without guilt.
\nOh, sweet friend. Let’s toss perfectionism right out the window, shall we?
\nSelf-love isn’t about fixing yourself to deserve love. It’s about embracing your imperfections, knowing they’re part of your story. God’s love isn’t performance-based, and your love for yourself shouldn’t be either.
\nPractice this:
Write down three flaws you’ve always judged yourself for. Then, write a sentence about how they’ve helped you grow.
We’ve all made choices we regret. But that doesn’t disqualify you from love, including from yourself.
\nGod’s grace covers your past, and self-love means letting go of shame and offering yourself forgiveness.
\nDo this:
Write a letter to your younger self—offer forgiveness, understanding, and love. (Yes, bring tissues.)
I love a good lavender bath bomb and dark chocolate as much as the next person, but self-love goes way deeper.
\nIt’s about the hard stuff—choosing rest, asking for help, saying no to toxic relationships, and doing the inner work.
\nReflection prompt:
What’s one hard-but-loving decision you’ve been avoiding? Maybe today’s the day to take the first step.
Nope. Self-love fuels growth by creating a safe inner space where you’re not constantly judging yourself.
\nWhen you love yourself, you’re more willing to try, fail, and try again. That’s how we grow.
\nReminder:
Give yourself the same encouragement you’d give a best friend trying something new.
Spoiler: you won’t. And that’s okay.
\nSelf-love is a practice, not a permanent emotion. Some days you’ll feel confident and radiant. Other days, you’ll feel like a human puddle. But choosing to speak kindly to yourself, even on those days, is love.
\nFeelings are temporary; self-love is a long-term relationship.
\nMany believe that focusing on themselves is unholy. But let’s be real: God cares about your heart, and part of caring for that heart is learning to love it like He does.
\nYou are fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14). Ignoring that doesn’t make you humble—it makes you disconnected from divine love.
\nWe all crave connection. But depending on someone else for your worth is a recipe for heartbreak.
\nTrue self-love means recognizing your God-given value, even when no one else claps for you.
\nYou don’t need someone to complete you—you’re already whole.
\nSorry, friend. There’s no graduation cap for self-love. It’s an ongoing, evolving relationship.
\nSome seasons will feel like progress; others, like a setback. Keep going anyway. You’re worth it.
\nTry this:
Create a “self-love survival kit” with affirmations, a journal, worship songs, snacks, and scripture cards.
Loving yourself starts right where you are, not when you lose 20 pounds, find a partner, or land that dream job.
\nYou are not your circumstances. You are God’s beloved.
\n\n\nReal-Life Example:
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Jessica, a single mom, thought rest was a luxury. But she started taking just 15 minutes each morning to sip coffee, read scripture, and be still. Guess what? That tiny act of love changed her whole day—and her life.
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Let’s talk about something that gets a lot of buzz but is also wildly misunderstood: self-love. Maybe you’ve heard someone say, “You just need to love yourself more!” it made your eyes roll so far back they almost got stuck. Or maybe you’ve tried the whole “self-love” thing and wondered why it felt awkward, self-indulgent, or even unspiritual. Here’s the thing: self-love isn’t about being narcissistic or selfish. It’s about accepting yourself, taking care of your emotional and spiritual well-being, and recognizing your worth, which God Himself has already declared. So, let’s bust some myths, shall we? 1. Self-love is selfish.This is probably the #1 misconception—and let me tell you, it’s just not true. Loving yourself doesn’t mean ignoring others or refusing to serve. It means setting healthy boundaries, knowing when to say no, and recognizing that you matter too. Jesus said to “love your neighbor as yourself” (Mark 12:31). That’s right. Loving others starts with loving YOU. Try this: 2. Self-love means you have to be perfect.Oh, sweet friend. Let’s toss perfectionism right out the window, shall we? Self-love isn’t about fixing yourself to deserve love. It’s about embracing your imperfections, knowing they’re part of your story. God’s love isn’t performance-based, and your love for yourself shouldn’t be either. Practice this: 3. You can’t love yourself if you make too many mistakes.We’ve all made choices we regret. But that doesn’t disqualify you from love, including from yourself. God’s grace covers your past, and self-love means letting go of shame and offering yourself forgiveness. Do this: 4. Self-love is all about bubble baths and chocolate.I love a good lavender bath bomb and dark chocolate as much as the next person, but self-love goes way deeper. It’s about the hard stuff—choosing rest, asking for help, saying no to toxic relationships, and doing the inner work. Reflection prompt: 5. Loving yourself means you’ll stop growing.Nope. Self-love fuels growth by creating a safe inner space where you’re not constantly judging yourself. When you love yourself, you’re more willing to try, fail, and try again. That’s how we grow. Reminder: Spoiler: you won’t. And that’s okay. Self-love is a practice, not a permanent emotion. Some days you’ll feel confident and radiant. Other days, you’ll feel like a human puddle. But choosing to speak kindly to yourself, even on those days, is love. Feelings are temporary; self-love is a long-term relationship. 7. It’s not spiritual to focus on yourself.Many believe that focusing on themselves is unholy. But let’s be real: God cares about your heart, and part of caring for that heart is learning to love it like He does. You are fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14). Ignoring that doesn’t make you humble—it makes you disconnected from divine love. 8. You need someone else to validate your worth.We all crave connection. But depending on someone else for your worth is a recipe for heartbreak. True self-love means recognizing your God-given value, even when no one else claps for you. You don’t need someone to complete you—you’re already whole. 9. Once you “get” self-love, you’ll never struggle again.Sorry, friend. There’s no graduation cap for self-love. It’s an ongoing, evolving relationship. Some seasons will feel like progress; others, like a setback. Keep going anyway. You’re worth it. Try this: 10. You can’t love yourself unless everything is together.Loving yourself starts right where you are, not when you lose 20 pounds, find a partner, or land that dream job. You are not your circumstances. You are God’s beloved. Practical Steps to Build Self-Love Daily
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